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Blind prejudice

Ben Goldacre, on Blind prejudice:

Noola Griffiths is an academic who studies the psychology of music, and she’s published a cracking paper on what women wear, and how that effects your judgement of their performance. The results are predictable….

For technical proficiency [after impressively controlling for myriad variables, female classical] performers in a concert dress were rated higher than if they were in jeans or a clubbing dress, even though the actual audio performance was exactly the same every time (and played by a separate musician who was never filmed). The results for musicality were similar: musicians in a clubbing dress were rated worst….

There’s little doubt that women are still discriminated against in the workplace, but each individual situation has so many variables that it can be difficult to assess clearly.

And?…. What I mean is: Where is the study which shows that there is (or isn’t) a comparable “discrimination” against men, by other men (or women), where a male classical musician in (inappropriate) clubbing attire is rated as less proficient/competent than an equivalent one in (inappropriate) jeans, or a tux? Contra Goldacre’s wishful thinking, this study, by itself, says nothing about sexual discrimination; it simply says that people who dress better (or who at least dress more socially appropriately) are viewed in a better light by their peers than those who don’t.

Every t-shirt-and-jeans-wearing hippie already knew that, damned well.

Further consider: Would a rock musician in an inappropriate tux be viewed as more or as less competent in that genre, than one wearing jeans?

If Goldacre analyzed Big Pharma studies with the same (in)aptitude as he analyzes gender-related, women-are-being-discriminated-against ones (which support his good-liberal preconceptions) … well, a “clubbing dress” would suit him well! Seriously, his take on this study is not even wrong.

Female musicians in the top five US symphony orchestras gradually rose from 5% in the 1970s to around 25%….

[F]rom the 1970s to 2000—the era which shifted from casual racism and sexism in popular culture, to more covert forms—between 30% and 55% [of] the trend towards greater equality was driven simply by selectors being forced not to see who they were selecting [with most of the rest of the increase being driven by the larger pool of female applicants].

I can well believe that women were truly being discriminated against in symphony orchestras, once upon a time. But neglecting Goldacre’s “covert forms of sexism” baloney (i.e., the implication that the primary reason why 50% of positions in symphony orchestras today aren’t held by women is simply due to hidden sexism), it’s interesting to see that women have topped out at 25% of that 95+ percentile, world-class level.

25%, that’s … damned close to 4 out of 21 or 3 out of 13, isn’t it?

Well, isn’t it, Ophelia?

White Fright

You know, the more I read of Christopher Hitchens, the less respect I have for him. These are his dribblings about the Glenn Beck rally over the weekend:

One crucial element of the American subconscious is about to become salient and explicit and highly volatile. It is the realization that white America is within thinkable distance of a moment when it will no longer be the majority….

Until recently, the tendency has been to think of this rather than to speak of it—or to speak of it very delicately, lest the hard-won ideal of diversity be imperiled.

Actually, it’s “lest one be called a racist.” It has piss-all to do with imperiling the “hard-won ideal of diversity,” which is in no danger at all of being imperiled.

Thus, it is really quite rare to hear slurs against President Barack Obama that are based purely on the color of his skin. Even Beck himself has tried to back away from the smears of that kind that he has spread in the past.

Beck called Obama a “racist”—that’s the “smear” he’s been backing away from recently. I still think he was right the first time, and that just as literally 70% of blacks are actively homophobic (in California, at least, and probably with a just as high or higher percentage in more conservative states), well over 80% of them are incurable and unapologetic racists. (By that I mean, they are people for whom their race is the most important aspect of their self-identification, which automatically makes them racists, just as feminists’ overweening identification as women can lead nowhere else but to them being unapologetic sexists, who favor and see only the good in their preferred in-group, and only the bad in the mistrusted out-group.) Including the half-black, racist Obama.

[I]t is increasingly common to hear allegations that Obama is either foreign-born or a Muslim.

The foreign-born thing is something that Barack could clear up in an instant, if he wanted to. That he hasn’t cleared up the “birther” issues shows either that he can’t (i.e., that the birthers are right), or that he doesn’t want to, i.e., he’s using it as a way of letting the “wingnuts” embarrass themselves. Either way, it’s completely his own fault, and his own responsibility; so there’s no point in trying to pin that on the people who are asking reasonable questions (even if their imaginations are getting away from them, beyond that).

And no, Obama’s not a Muslim. But he did sit in the pews of Jeremiah Wright’s church for several decades. And Wright is actively sympathetic with Louis Farrakhan’s truly vile and unapologetically racist Black Muslim movement in America:

Wright … called Louis Farrakhan “one of the most important voices in the 20th and 21st century,” and repeated his endorsement of an AIDS conspiracy theory [i.e., that AIDS is a biological weapon manufactured by whites to wipe out the black race]. (Wikipedia, since removed)

Obama’s spiritual mentor, Rev. Jeremiah Wright, is a good friend of Louis Farrakhan and even accompanied him to Libya to meet with General Muammar Gaddaffi in 1984. And in 1995, Barack Obama himself flew from Chicago to Washington, D.C. to attend Farrakhan’s [sexist] Million Man March….

No one could sit in a church like that for twenty years without being a racist: Anyone who wasn’t a racist would have been so disgusted by Wright’s (and Farrakhan’s) racism and sexism, that he would have simply walked out and not gone back.

This is how I summarized that craziness it in Hip Like Me:

[Jesse] Jackson is also a “friend and ally” of Louis Farrakhan, leader of the Nation of Islam. That Nation teaches that black people were the original humans, and that whites are only “potential humans.” Plus some even more out-of-this-world ideas, from a Meet the Press interview with Farrakhan in 1997:

[Tim Russert:] Henry Louis Gates … asked you whether you still subscribe to the teachings of Elijah Muhammad on Yakub, a black scientist who 6,600 years ago created the white man, and that by the end of the twentieth century, a spaceship will come and rain down upon white people and people who don’t embrace Islam. Do you subscribe to the teachings of Yakub, that Yakub, the black scientist, created the white man?

[Farrakhan:] I subscribe to every word that the Honorable Elijah Muhammad taught us.

Until Malcolm X left the Nation of Islam in 1964, knowing his life was in danger for doing that—he was assassinated in 1965—he promoted the same science-fiction teachings. And more:

White people are born devils by nature….

Thoughtful white people know they are inferior to black people…. Anyone who has studied the genetic phase of biology knows that white is considered recessive and black is considered dominant. When you want strong coffee, you ask for black coffee….

Elsewhere, Farrakhan labeled the Jews, Palestinian Arabs, Koreans and Vietnamese as “bloodsuckers,” for allegedly taking from the black community but giving nothing back in return.

Farrakhan later confirmed that he is neither a racist nor anti-Semitic.

Enlarging on that same theme in a speech in 1994, the Supreme Minister of the Nation of Islam claimed: “Murder and lying comes easy for white people.”

Enlarging even further on that theme, in 1992 filmmaker Spike Lee stated:

A lot of people will have to do a lot of explaining on AIDS one day. All of a sudden, a disease appears out of nowhere that nobody has a cure for, and it’s specifically targeted at gays and minorities (i.e., Hispanics and blacks). The mystery disease, yeah, about as mysterious as genocide.

I’m convinced AIDS is a government-engineered disease. They got one thing wrong, they never realized it couldn’t just be contained to the groups it was intended to wipe out.

A year earlier, comedian Bill Cosby had reportedly claimed that the same illness was “started by human beings to get after certain people they don’t like”…. And, in the July 1999 issue of Vanity Fair, Will Smith floated the idea that “possibly AIDS was created as a result of biological-warfare testing.”

Do you honestly think that that crazy-paranoid-racist ideology won’t have come up regularly in Wright’s “Christian” church? Of course it did. And Obama sat through it all, when any thinking person with a conscience would have walked out in disgust.

Hitchens:

And these insinuations are perfectly emblematic of the two main fears of the old majority: that it will be submerged by an influx from beyond the borders and that it will be challenged in its traditional ways and faiths by an alien and largely Third World religion.

Wasn’t that a big part of the motivation behind multiculturalism in the first place? You know, to break the monopoly of white (male) Christian power in the West by importing a bunch of non-white, non-Christian Others, with the idea that “You scratch my back [in agitating for civil/women's rights], and I’ll scratch yours,” against the common (white, Christian male) enemy. (And as we all know, “the enemy of my white, male enemy is my friend.” Isn’t he? Ask the gays in California.) Plus, blank-slate ideology (where equality of opportunities would automatically produce equality of results, so an inequality in the latter is taken as proof of discrimination in the former) and a genuine wish to make up for the wrongs of colonialism (which wish can be driven just as well by the greater liberal desire for fairness, as by the one-dimensional accusation of “white liberal guilt”).

At the last “Tea Party” rally I attended, earlier this year at the Washington Monument, some in the crowd made at least an attempt to look fierce and minatory. I stood behind signs that read: “We left our guns at home—this time” and “We invoke the First Amendment today—the Second Amendment tomorrow.” But Beck’s event was tepid by comparison: a call to sink to the knees rather than rise from them.

The alternative was to get dismissed by the liberal media (yourself included, Hitch) as a bunch of resentful, gun-totin’ rednecks.

[T]he U.S. population is simply not going to be replenished by Puritan pilgrims from England, and the original Pledge of Allegiance was fine with most people as a statement of national unity, until its “original intent” was compromised by a late insertion of the words “under God” in the McCarthyite 1950s.

Only atheists are bothered by that insertion, and they comprise less than 15% of the population. When illegal immigrants from Mexico, and legal immigrants (including Muslims) from the rest of the Third World, gag on that same pledge of allegiance, it ain’t the “under God” part that they’re being bothered by. Hitchens’ treatment of that issue is either pathetically ignorant or outright disingenuous/dishonest.

In a rather curious and confused way, some white people are starting almost to think like a minority, even like a persecuted one. What does it take to believe that Christianity is an endangered religion in America or that the name of Jesus is insufficiently spoken or appreciated?

Oh, I dunno, maybe the “War on Christmas,” for one—e.g., the fact that you’re not even allowed to cheerfully say “Merry Christmas” without risking offending the recipient?

A controversy regarding these issues arose in 2002, when the New York City public school system banned the display of nativity scenes, but allowed the display of supposedly less overtly religious symbols such as Christmas trees, Hanukkah menorahs, and the Muslim star and crescent….

In December 2007, a public controversy arose when a public school in Ottawa, Canada planned to have the children in its primary choir sing a version of the song “Silver Bells” with the word “Christmas” removed….

Another controversy occurred in 2005 with the US hardware retailer Lowe’s. Signage for their Christmas trees read “holiday trees” in English, but read árboles de Navidad (Christmas trees) in Spanish rather than árboles de feriados. In 2007, Lowe’s started using the term “family tree,” sparking protest from the American Family Association, but they have since claimed that this term was only a printing mistake….

In 2009 in Jerusalem, Israel the Lobby for Jewish Values with support of the Jerusalem Rabbinate has handed out fliers condemning Christmas and have called for a boycott of restaurants and hotels that sell or put up Christmas trees and what the organization called “foolish” Christian symbols.

Christians have been successful in getting major retailers to go back to saying “Christmas,” but that’s only because they still have the numbers to enforce meaningful boycotts. That won’t be the case forever.

And no one, I’m sure, has ever claimed that “Christianity is an endangered religion”—that’s a pure straw man on Hitchens’ addled (or dishonest) part, equating potential minority (< 50%) status with being “endangered,” i.e., at risk of not existing at all.

Further, any Christian, regardless of how moderate he is, would surely say that “the name of Jesus is insufficiently spoken or appreciated”—that’s just part of wanting the whole world to hear and believe the Good News you’ve accepted into your heart! So yeah, I’m sure they’re regularly guilty of thinking that Jesus is underappreciated! How could they not be??

What an idiot. What a fucking dishonest atheist idiot. I’d like to be charitable and say that it’s just the chemotherapy that’s affecting his ability to think clearly, but I really doubt that that’s the problem.

Who wakes up believing that there is no appreciation for our veterans and our armed forces and that without a noisy speech from Sarah Palin, their sacrifice would be scorned?

What does “waking up” first thing in the morning have to do with it? Probably even less than McCarthyism had to do with the addition of the words “under God” to the Pledge of Allegiance. That is, it’s just an easy way for Hitchens to smear things by association, in this case painting the Tea Partiers and their ilk as being sleepy-eyed dopes.

And who has ever said “no appreciation”? What the relevant people (including Palin) are obviously saying (going back to the way in which veterans returning from Vietnam were “welcomed” back home in the ’60s) is “insufficient appreciation.” So again, either stupid or dishonest on Hitchens’ part, take your pick.

It’s not unfair to say that such grievances are purely and simply imaginary, which in turn leads one to ask what the real ones can be. The clue, surely, is furnished by the remainder of the speeches, which deny racial feeling so monotonously and vehemently as to draw attention.

What a polite and circuitous way of calling the people involved, racists—whose perception of being treated unfairly by (and in favor of) affirmative-action benefiting minorities is purely imagined, and whose racism is shown by the very “clue” of them denying it (in the naïve hope that doing so will make a difference to dishonest and/or incompetent journalists like Hitchens himself).

Damned if ya do, and damned if ya don’t, eh?

Incidentally, of all the things to cite in opposition of the Ground Zero mosque, the relevant imam’s statement (which Hitchens makes much of) that “the United States policies were an accessory to the crime that happened” is not one of them. As the Canadian military tells its own soldiers (I have this from one of them, who was deployed to the Persian Gulf), Osama bin Laden was originally financed by the American government, as a (Cold War) terrorist against Russia. So in a most direct way, Bin Laden was indeed created by American foreign policy. And even if it wasn’t for that, there’s still plenty of political (i.e., American foreign-policy) motivation behind Islamic terrorism.

These are Bin Laden’s own words, unmodulated by Hitchens’ wonky/dishonest view of the world:

Allah knows it did not cross our minds to attack the towers but after the situation became unbearable and we witnessed the injustice and tyranny of the American-Israeli alliance against our people in Palestine and Lebanon, I thought about it. And the events that affected me directly were that of 1982 and the events that followed—when America allowed the Israelis to invade Lebanon, helped by the U.S. Sixth Fleet. As I watched the destroyed towers in Lebanon, it occurred to me punish the unjust the same way (and) to destroy towers in America so it could taste some of what we are tasting and to stop killing our children and women.

So in no way is it a 100% cultural (or virgin-Paradise driven) war, as Hitchens and Sam Harris disingenuously try their best to reduce it to.

Late professors Arthur Schlesinger and Samuel Huntington both published books expressing misgivings about, respectively, multiculturalism and rapid demographic change. But these were phrased so carefully as almost to avoid starting the argument they flirted with.

Yes, because they didn’t want to have their careers ruined by being called “racists” by the liberal media. See under “Tea Party, clue.” How friggin’ difficult is that to understand?

More recently, almost every European country has seen the emergence of populist parties that call upon nativism and give vent to the idea that the majority population now feels itself unwelcome in its own country.

I know I do. Seriously. And that’s an attitude that I’ve only come to reluctantly over the past three years, as economic circumstances forced me to live alongside these imported (and homegrown) dregs, who would regularly (i.e., every couple of weeks, on average) hassle me as I was walking down the street, minding my own business, for no reason other than the color of my skin, and their own homophobia (even though I’m not gay, but I do look like I very well might be, and regardless, what little low-IQ runt wouldn’t be thrilled to find someone that even he can finally push around?).

The ugliness of Islamic fundamentalism in particular has given energy and direction to such movements. It will be astonishing if the United States is not faced, in the very near future, with a similar phenomenon.

Let’s hope so. Let’s fucking hope so.

Another controversy occurred in 2005 with the US hardware retailer Lowe’s. Signage for their Christmas trees read “holiday trees” in English, but read árboles de Navidad (Christmas trees) in Spanish rather than árboles de feriados. In 2007, Lowe’s started using the term “family tree”, sparking protest from the American Family Association, but they have since claimed that this term was only a printing mistake.[34]

After claims that it was avoiding the term, US retailer Lowe’s began using “Christmas tree” prominently in advertising.

In 2009 in Jerusalem, Israel the Lobby for Jewish Values with support of the Jerusalem Rabbinate has handed out fliers condemning Christmas and have called for a boycott of restaurants and hotels that sell or put up Christmas trees and what the organization called “foolish” Christian symbols.

One other thing, about Hitchens’ idea that the “don’t walk your dogs near a mosque” vs. “don’t build the mosque near Ground Zero” debate can be a lesson in mutual tolerance: We have no leverage at all in those negotiations because (i) we’re dealing with a bullying culture in which attempts at negotiation are seen as a sign of weakness, (ii) they already know that when they threaten us we won’t threaten them back (which is another sign of weakness to them, as bullies, right?), (iii) they’ve got God/Allah on their side, so letting dogs walk too close to their mosques or moving the Ground Zero mosque would both be effectively “giving in to Satan,” and (iv) if all else fails, they can scream “racism” or “Islamophobia,” to get us to cave.

So if they threaten us for walking our dogs too close to their “holy” places, we’ll just find some other, safer place to walk … until there are no such places left.

Given all of those constraints, the only way to “fight back” against the Islamic menace is to make them feel unwelcome in our countries, via opinion poles and private election votes, passive-aggressive though that may be. And because that fight is so unfair, and we are so culturally self-restricted in how we can respond even to savages who threaten our basic human rights from within our own countries, things like banning minarets in Switzerland, banning burquas in France, and protesting against any mosque in NYC (regardless of where it’s built), are not only encouraging signs that the populace is waking up to that menace, but are the right thing to do … especially if they make Muslims feel unwelcome in the West.

Smear ‘em all with lard, is what I say.

Shallow, smug, arrogant

I just wasted ten minutes of my life reading Russell Blackford’s dull critique of an even-worse Op Ed piece by Suzanne Fields in Sun Myung Moon’s Washington Times, in which he notes:

As for the essays in 50 Voices of Disbelief, since she mentions it, some are light and humorous, but I can’t think of any that can fairly be described as containing nothing but “smug, shallow and arrogant assertions.”

Ophelia Benson’s contribution comes very close indeed to exactly that—smug, yes; shallow, absolutely; arrogant, certainly—on top of unapologetically twisting the facts to suit her persecuted-feminist view of the world. So it’s actually worse than Blackford is giving it credit for.

Of course those Western atheists who think religion should be criticized are likely to concentrate on the religion that exerts the most social influence around them and which they understand best, i.e. Christianity. There is nothing surprising or sinister about this. It doesn’t show hypocrisy and or a double standard, merely a sense of local priorities and a rational division of labor. For exactly the same reason, it is perfectly understandable, and there’s nothing sinister about it, when Turkish atheists concentrate more on Islam. In any event, as Islam gains in influence in the West more actually is being written about it by Western atheists. The violent fanaticism associated with various strains of political Islam constantly comes under attack from Western atheists (among others). There are numerous examples of this every day, e.g. over at Butterflies and Wheels, and again that is a natural step.

True enough, and Benson plays that “one note” very well—though one truly wonders how much interest she’d have in the subject if it wasn’t her in-group that is, above, all, being oppressed by dem goat-fuckers.

But then, a commenter has the temerity to step up and say:

Too long and too gentle Russell. The bitch [i.e., Fields] deserves a very hard slap.

Ah, but you see, that’s exactly the sort of “cliquish locker room atmosphere of anonymous boyz cheering each other on” that Benson keeps, er, “bitching” about.

I trust a heartfelt apology (to Benson) will be forthcoming, from Blackford and his commenters….

Sexism in the Workplace Hurts, New Study Finds

From Sexism in the Workplace Hurts, New Study Finds:

Gender harassment is defined as verbal and nonverbal behaviors that convey insulting, hostile and degrading attitudes to women.

According to Emily Leskinen, Lilia Cortina, and Dana Kabat from the University of Michigan, gender harassment leads to negative personal and professional outcomes too and, as such, is a serious form of sex discrimination.

In their view, there is a case for interpreting existing legislation as including gender harassment, so that it is recognized as a legitimate and serious form of sex-based discrimination in the workplace.

I keep thinking about the time, a decade ago, when I was doing some work at one of the branches of the natural foods store I worked at for a year in Winnipeg.

The female store manager and a female customer were talking at the checkout, flitting from one topic to another. Then the store manager looked at me, smiled, and said: “Woman-speak.”

Which I, of course, being a “linear” (bad thing) male, must have been having great difficulty in following, right?

Who do I sue? You know, for that insulting/degrading “gender harassment.”

Like Woody Allen once said, “I’m a bigot, I know. But for the left, so it’s okay.”

You Scratch My (Black) Back….

Ah, you see:

In 1848, [the freed slave Frederick] Douglass attended the first women’s rights convention, the Seneca Falls Convention, as the only African American. Elizabeth Cady Stanton asked the assembly to pass a resolution asking for women’s suffrage. Many of those present opposed the idea, including influential Quakers James and Lucretia Mott. Douglass stood and spoke eloquently in favor; he said that he could not accept the right to vote himself as a black man if woman could not also claim that right. Douglass projected that the world would be a better place if women were involved in the political sphere. “In this denial of the right to participate in government, not merely the degradation of woman and the perpetuation of a great injustice happens, but the maiming and repudiation of one-half of the moral and intellectual [har!] power of the government of the world.” Douglass’s powerful words rang true with enough attendees that the resolution passed.

So you see, from the beginnings of feminism, the expectation between feminist women and downtrodden blacks has always been that “You scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours.”

It’s just a little step from there to gays in California expecting blacks to support them in their noble fight for gay-marriage in the twenty-first century … and then giving (valid) vent to “racist” sentiments (cf. Dan Savage) when the blacks “turn again, and rend them,” i.e., show themselves to be far more homophobic than whites are.

After all, “We had a deal,” right?

If you need an additional point of reference for that behavior, consider how contemporary one-true-religions band together to defend each others’ right to not be offended (etc.) by blasphemous atheists … and that, if they could succeed in silencing/burning us (and our free speech), they’d immediately return to their traditional behavior of clawing at each other for being “the work of Satan,” etc. Conversely, when religions manage to get along and even cooperate with each other, it’s in no small part for having a common enemy, in infidels like Bertrand Russell, Dawkins, Hitchens … and Yours Truly.

Also derived from the pen of Frederick Douglas, this:

[Douglas] argues that there is a natural hierarchy of men. An ambitious man will naturally, through hard work, climb the social ladder, whereas the unmotivated man will not improve his position: “the man who will get up will be helped up; and the man who will not get up will be allowed to stay down.” Applying this theory to the situation of the African-Americans, Douglass remarks: “Give the negro fair play and let him alone. If he lives, well. If he dies, equally well. If he cannot stand up, let him fall down.”

The 16 Sexiest Atheists

If this is the direction the New Atheism is going, I like it:

The 16 Sexiest [Female] Atheists.

15 Sexy [Female] Scientists. Though truly, more than half of that collection merely reminds one how rare it is to find women who are both attractive and intelligent, much less able to think rationally … at least on the job, when their runaway emotions and difficulty in accepting responsibility—the core of feminism, where every difficulty a woman faces is always “someone else’s fault”—aren’t skewing that. Same thing for the Atheist list: The gorgeous ones aren’t the ones writing books, or even articles … or even blog postings. Yes, I know Kirshenbaum writes; but since she invariably manages to get things exactly wrong in the accommodationist vs. New Atheist spat, and is either “playing dumb” or really is dumb when it comes to countering her critics in that—not to mention that, like Benson, she seems to need a man to co-author her books, i.e., to do the “heavy intellectual lifting,” though the forthcoming book on kissing seems to be an impressively (and ironically) solo effort—….

And how could that list miss Daniela Schiller (drummer for the Amygdaloids)? Or the cancer-fighting biomathematician Franziska Michor? Or Leda Cosmides? Or even Danica McKellar (math degree)?

Of course, the moronic feminist response to all that is still very predictable:

For me, the problem with a post like this is that, rather than celebrate human sexuality, it reinforces the cultural notion that women are valueless (regardless of career choice or ideological stance) unless they conform to a rigid notion of physical attractiveness.

If you enjoy looking at these women, that’s fine. But posting this shows a disrespect to your female readership by exhibiting willful blindness to the hardships they face in being taken seriously in academic pursuits.

Never mind that the women there are being celebrated for being sexy and smart; to the nitwit feminists, even that isn’t good enough to make them happy.

But then, the “Chunky Monkey Mind” Feminazi in question is really just upset that she doesn’t (and can’t) conform to those same “rigid notions of physical attractiveness,” isn’t she? (Probably all of the Ben & Jerry’s isn’t helping.)

And, of course, the list isn’t “racially diverse” enough, either:

if atheists hope to spread the idea of free and critical thought into a wide spectrum of communities, it would help if the same homogeneity that exists in the religious world were not also sooo obvious in the secular world of free thinkers as well….

there are indeed some non-white/european sexy women scientists on the planet. it would be nice if you included some of them – i do grant the asian woman.

there is an old saying: “the most segregated day in America is Sunday”. if atheists had regular meetings — based on what i see on the internets — we’d be lumping the atheist/free-thinking communities right in with that saying.

To which the appropriate response is:

My favorite women in the world are actually darker-skinned Latinas, as it happens. If you can point me to some sexy non-white scientists, I will most gladly add them to the list.

Damn us patriarchal, oppressive white men all to heck for excluding non-white women from science (and atheism) now, too, even when they’re every bit as good at it as we are! When will we ever learn??!

I will now go and flagellate myself, on behalf of my race and gender.

Actually, I think I’ll take a print-out of those lists with me for while I do that….

The foolish feminist: Be careful who you call a misogynist, you misandrist

I like this. I like this a lot: Jesse Bering dismantles the irrational, clueless-bint man-hatred of one Ms Emily Nagoski.

If you’ve ever wondered why some feminists have earned themselves such a bad name, and are at all curious about how some intriguing new experimental research demonstrates that this negative view of feminism is more than just my personal opinion and in fact runs very deep in the modern psyche, then read on….

Consider this little dollop of unabashed misandry buried … in Nagoski’s blog post:

I LOVE the word mucus! Like a cross between music and kiss—and cervical mucus is my favorite of all the bodily fluids because it’s INTELLIGENT. It changes with fertility. Men don’t quite deserve the word mucus. Semen’s good enough for them.

Wait. What? Ah, right, you’re joking. So now you’ve acquired a sense of humor, but it’s okay here because it’s at the expense of men. Why, you hypocritical, self-righteous, sanctimonious schmuck. “Schmuck”—that’s a gender-neutral term, see what I did there?

Actually, it derives from the Yiddish word for “penis”; and if there’s one way to get under a feminist’s skin, it’s to call her a penis. But I digress….

Incidentally, dear readers, I’d venture a guess that, unlike “misogyny,” many of you had to look up the word “misandry” (I did), which probably says something about the double standard by which society feels it’s perfectly acceptable for women to hate men, but men aren’t permitted to hate women.

We might easily brush away the secretly man-hating Nagoskis of this world as the petulantly buzzing flies that they are, but the sad truth is that these are precisely the same people who for decades have been undermining important, intellectually informed scientific debates by scaring male (and female) researchers into submission while screaming misogyny—most often at curious, promising young evolutionary psychologists who haven’t even the slightest tremor of a sexist agenda (to the contrary). Even worse, though, by all appearances the Nagoskis of this world—those radical, hot-headed, loudmouthed caricatures of blank slate feminism—are giving the feminist movement itself a bad name. A really bad name.

And you thought that the “sexism” I indulge in here from time to time was all just me going slowly over the edge, didn’t you?

Of course, Bering can get away with “calling a bitch a bitch” ’cause he’s a flaming fag.

I, by contrast, just look like a fag, and therefore am still—sadly—“part of the problem.”

Unfortunately, the “F” word has become high-jacked by Nagoski and her sanctimonious ilk, and it’s become a term loaded with negative stereotypes of the kind exemplified by her sour and overly vigilant, accusatory, men-are-brutes outlook on life. For example, in a 2009 study published in Sex Roles, Valparaiso University psychologist Jessica Jenen and her colleagues reported the results from the first Implicit Attitude Test (IAT) on feminist concepts, and what this study showed was that the most obnoxious, peevish and humorless feminists were sadly defining the movement in the minds of thoughtful onlookers….

What a sad state of affairs for the feminist movement. So there’s my apology, Nagoski. Go stuff it up that hole of yours which is shared by both male and female jackasses alike.

Of course, Bering can get away with talking about “assholes” in insulting ways because he’s a flaming fag.

I, by contrast, would not want to risk offending gays by insulting their valued “portals of ecstasy.” But that’s just me.

Blog Envy

To repeat:

In the UK, 80% of psychology undergraduates are female and the profession is overwhelming female. I don’t know figures from other countries but my impression is that this is a global trend.

I’m pretty sure there isn’t a vast world of female mind and brain bloggers out there that were missed in the interview series, so it seems psychology writers on the net are mostly male, with some very notable exceptions.

Ladies, don’t be shy. If you’re blogging in the shadows, let us know, and if you’ve ever thought about it, give it a go.

Remember when all but 4 out of the 21 speakers (19.0%) at that Australian atheists’ conference last year were men, and the question Ophelia Benson (and other feminists) couldn’t help but ask was, Where are all the women? With, you know, the implication that the (sexist) men arranging that meeting were excluding them?

Why wouldn’t the same “explanation” apply for the dearth of interviewed women who write psych-related blogs, for a bird-brain like her? ‘Cause in this case, only 3 out of the 13 bloggers (23.1%—eerily close to 19%, isn’t it?) interviewed were women … thus “proving” that the psychological-blogging-interviewing field is just as sexist as are the atheists. Even in a profession which is “overwhelmingly female.”

We men are such unfair bastards, aren’t we? And how typical of a blogging man to not even consider that possibility as the obvious cause of the discrepancy, before encouraging the “ladies” to not “be shy.”

How can we expect them not to be “shy,” when we keep excluding them, eh?

Eh?

Notwithstanding the small sample sets, I suppose that the nearly-equal percentages of women being at the top of those two “professions” in the blogosphere probably means that, although psych is dominated by women, it’s drawing very few of the smartest and most-driven women into it, even apart from the high-end IQ difference between men and women. (To gain any readership at all for a blog, you actually do have to know your stuff quite well—even if most of that stuff is wrong, as in the Steveosphere—and enjoy writing enough that you couldn’t stop if you wanted to, i.e., with a personality such that you have to write and share your ideas even if you don’t really have the time to do it.) That is, it’s sort of a “fall-back” option for people (esp. women) who often discover the hard way that they aren’t smart enough to cut it in the tougher faculties, thus being disproportionately weighted toward the middle of the bell-curve by those “dropouts, for whom it wasn’t the first choice. So, although women dominate the field overall, if you looked at the top 5% of psychologists (and bloggers), it would probably still be 75 to 80% men.

By the way, 95 percent—you can quote me on this—95 percent of psychologists” are not deeply intuitive about others, [Howard] Gardner added. “They come to psychology out of chemistry, because they weren’t good enough in chemistry.”

So Freud would be proud: On top of “penis envy,” we’ll now be seeing “blog envy” too!

‘Cause you always want what you haven’t got, especially if it’s a source of power and prestige in the world … don’tcha, ladies?

There are no “entrance barriers” to participating in the blogosphere: A free blog on WordPress.com, and you’re ready to go. But equally, there’s no way to hide behind the idea that “men won’t let you speak,” and no Affirmative Action in the blogosphere: It’s a true meritocracy.

And that’s precisely why women are contributing high-quality content at less than one-quarter the rate at which men do, even in fields which they otherwise “dominate.”

Lindsay Lohan gets punched in face by waitress on birthday

Lindsay Lohan gets punched in face by waitress on birthday:

“A waitress just hit me,” Lindsay, who was spotted leaving West Hollywood hotspot Voyeur early Friday morning, claimed in a Tweet early Friday morning. “Punched me for no reason”….

“The waitress has a history with Doug Reinhardt, and Lohan was hanging out with him. She was jealous, and out of nowhere, the waitress punched her in the face!” an Us Weekly source claimed. “Doug didn’t want any part of it and went to the other side of the booth. Lohan ran out.”

Excellent!! “Catfight!” etc.

Now if only the people she’s suing over the “milkaholic” ad could get in a swing or two of their own ….

… And Two of Every Supplement….

Amazing how Other People’s Mistakes just won’t stop interfering with my life. I just “had to” send this email to the owner (?) of Noah’s Natural Foods, today:

I had registered for your loyalty program around a month ago, at your Yonge store.

When I registered, I was told by the cashier that I could bring the receipt (for over $300 worth of items) back in when the card had been entered into your system, and have the purchase applied to the card then.

When I did precisely that several days later, I was told by the (new) cashier that the card still hadn’t been entered; the girl took my previous receipt, plus the new one for over $100, and wrote a note to her manager, taping it on the monitor screen, where it could not be missed.

When I was in the same store this afternoon, I was told that my info still hadn’t been entered into the system, and that the only thing they could do was to have me fill out a NEW APPLICATION. Which, of course, meant that the $80 I just spent there today wouldn’t get recorded to the card. (The cashier this time told me again that she could write a note, to try and have this purchase applied to the new loyalty card. I told her that I had already been informed previously that they couldn’t do that.)

When I spoke to the manager about this, she suggested that my original application may not have been legible enough for them to read it. Not that they had lost it or otherwise screwed this up internally, but that the most likely scenario would be that this was MY fault.

I can assure you that the legibility of my writing is not the issue, here: This is an in-store screw-up, pure and simple, which your foolish manager should not have even THOUGHT about trying to blame ME for. (If this had happened with a female customer, would the manager [a.k.a. beady-eyed in-store bitch] have assumed that illegibility was the most-likely issue?)

Implementing a loyalty program that manages to offend your premium customers, not to mention blaming them for an in-store fuck-up, is nothing to aspire to. On the contrary, I have worked extensively both in loyalty marketing and in the natural-foods industry (as a cashier and doing the bulk-foods ordering for a year at a similar store in Winnipeg), and have never before seen anything like this. Screw-ups happen, sure; that’s why I had already kissed the $400 that should have previously been put on the card goodbye. But the onus is always on the staff and management to take whatever steps are necessary to “make it right,” not to blame the customer for their OWN (collective) MISTAKES. This is BASIC.

What your staff SHOULD have done is not merely ensure that all THREE of those receipts got recorded to my card, but offered me additional compensation (along with a sincere apology–FROM THE MANAGER, not from the cashier I dealt with today, who generally handled this as best she could) for the aggravation which this has caused me. THAT IS HOW YOU RETAIN YOUR BEST CUSTOMERS, even after mistakes have happened.

As it stands, I will be doing my future shopping for organics and the like at Whole Foods: “Three strikes, you’re out.”

I have also blogged about this.

Whole Foods is in no way convenient for me to get to, being up in Yorkville, and a ten-minute walk from the nearest subway station; and the corporate owner is actually a buddy of Ken Wilber, for Chrissake … and a real slimeball even outside of that. So I don’t do this lightly.

And if you think I’m being overly sensitive about the “illegibility” issue above, that sort of misstep is precisely the type of thing which feminists (which I have no doubt the store is full of) get their strap-ons in a twist about, when men do similarly unthinking things. (A decade ago, when I was working at Toronto Organics, the chubby office manager was convinced that the reason why the black box-packing doofus—whose only skill in life was the ability to tell how much a green pepper weighed just by picking it up—didn’t listen to her was just because she was a woman. She actually expressed that flight of fancy to the owner!)

Reminds me of how my suggesting, years ago, that someone’s writing looked like it was done by a girl, for being very neat, earned me glared daggers from my angry-feminist sister—who at other times thought nothing of branding my actions (including having brought extra sweetbreads to an Easter gathering without [gasp!] having cleared that with the host) as that of a “typical man,” even while being totally oblivious to the fact that she was behaving there as a typical fault-finding woman. And yet if a bunch of coasting vajayjays lose a fucking membership application, plus the follow-up note to that (where I’m certain that the cashier took down my phone number in her own, neat-little handwriting), it’s because they couldn’t read the man’s writing. Right! Nice fucking double-standard, there, you little unable-to-compete, sexist nitwits.

“The customer is always right”? Not at Noah’s, apparently. (When the first cashier told me that I could bring the $300 receipt back the next time, that constituted a legally binding promise, which the store must honor, even if what she told me is not their normal policy. It doesn’t matter if she was misinformed—which would be a training issue, and thus the fault of the manager or owner for not distributing that policy as an addendum to their employee procedures handbook—and it doesn’t even matter that honoring promises which your employees make is vital to retaining your customer base. It’s still a binding promise, made on behalf of the store, the breach of which has cost me money.)

All I got from these idiots was excuses like “We’re still working out the kinks” in the new system. Nothing even resembling the acceptance of responsibility, much less an adequate attempt to put things right: Just the equivalent of “You’re out of luck. Sorry.”

Finally, if you had seen my printing/writing, you would know that it is every bit as crystal-clear as is my prose. Even though, you know, I’m a “stereotypical guy.”

Reminds me of something I read recently:

Not being too good at abstraction, [feminists] didn’t understand that a man can be perfectly happy with casual sex, scuba gear, and a Harley Sportster. Left to himself, he would never think of having a Volvo station wagon, a boring McMansion with a backbreaking mortgage, or a wedded termagant who wouldn’t let him go out with his friends…..

Certain dialogs become common: “All you want is sex!”

“Uh … what else have you got?” or “So what?”

Indeed, “What else have you got”? But still, they’re good at the emotional stuff, right? You know, conflict-resolution and all that? Smoothing things over? That’s why businesses with women in managerial positions run better than with men in charge?

Right?

Bonus:

In the UK, 80% of psychology undergraduates are female and the profession is overwhelming female. I don’t know figures from other countries but my impression is that this is a global trend.

I’m pretty sure there isn’t a vast world of female mind and brain bloggers out there that were missed in the interview series, so it seems psychology writers on the net are mostly male [well, at least the best of them are], with some very notable exceptions.

Ladies, don’t be shy. If you’re blogging in the shadows, let us know, and if you’ve ever thought about it, give it a go.

Even the Interwebz won’t let them into the “man’s world,” eh? No wonder they don’t even bother to show up….